I remember the day when Nelson Mandela was released from prison like it was yesterday. I have no idea why I have such a vivid memory of it, but I just do. It was 1990 and I was 10 years old. We had just arrived at our campsite ready for a waterskiing weekend and it was absolutely pouring with rain. Usually when we arrived at our campsites Dad would immediately begin unpacking the caravan and start to put the tent up regardless of the weather. It was always a bit of a commotion as he would yell instructions at us to “stand by that peg” or “hold this line” – which of course none of us ever did!! (I can only now appreciate his frustration).
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.”
– Nelson Mandela
Anyway, this time was different. We all sat in the car listening to the radio (no ipads or DVD players in those days). Mum and Dad had both SHHHHHHHHHED us several times, so we knew it was important. I remember not quite understanding what was going on but asking my dad to explain and he told me “Things are about to change my girl! For the better!”
“We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, handsome, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are we not to be?”
– Nelson Mandela
A couple of years later we immigrated to England and it was only really there that I started to learn the true meaning of who this ‘Nelson Mandela’ was, and about the Apartheid part of South African history. My parents had kept us very sheltered from the politics surrounding us as children and had brought us up not to see any different between black and white. I was very naive and had quite a tough time as a young, white South African teen in England trying to defend my stance on how I was involved in the Apartheid. Especially as I wasn’t involved at all and actually knew very little about it. I started to mimic the English accent in an attempt to ‘fit in’ and not be asked any more questions about why I hated black people (which of course I didn’t). I even went as far as trying to deny my own heritage as I started to believe that being South African was something to be ashamed of.
“No one is born hating another person because of the colour of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”
It took me quite a few years to finally make peace with my real roots and to be proud of where I came from. Reading Nelson Mandela’s autobiography “Long Walk to Freedom” really helped to put everything into perspective for me. It opened my eyes to the power positive thoughts and self belief. If you ever get a chance to read it, it’s an amazing and truly moving story.
Another moment in history, which is without a doubt etched in the memories of every single South African, was that moment on the 24th June 1995 when the Springboks won the rugby world cup. I was 15 years old and on a school Geography trip. Earlier that day my foot had slipped down a rabbit hole (don’t laugh) and I broke my ankle, which meant that I couldn’t go down to the beach to do “geography stuff” with the rest of my class mates. Instead I got to sit in front of the telly with my geography teacher, who was also South African, and who had also broken her ankle in that rabbit hole (true story, I promise) and watched the game!!! Oh my god, was it exciting!!! We were screaming and bouncing up and down on the bed in a tiny room somewhere in Dorset – so I can only just begin to imagine the atmosphere that must have been in South Africa that day. Mr D remembers it well too as the game was on his 21st Birthday.
“As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”
– Nelson Mandela
“I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s head pointed towards the sun and one’s feet moving forward.”
– Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom
He is, and always will be a true inspiration to mankind and I’m pretty sure he will be somewhat entangled in the hearts of all South Africans. I wish him well as he fights his final battle with life itself, which will surely lead him to his ultimate freedom.
Wow that pulled on my heart strings I have to say, I dont remember anything to do with Mandela during his fight to freedom but over the years watching this amazing man change peoples thoughts process has had a huge impact… and it will be a sad day when he says goodbye, thanks for sharing Shelley xx
Thanks Shelley. All the stuff in the news about him lately has brought loads of memories flooding back. He is an incredible man xx
a BLESSING to us all, a s.african I am, never met him, so sad..
Yes it is very sad – but he lived an incredible life (and so amazingly forgiving too)
A very moving post, Nelson Mandela was a huge figure for myself and my contemporaries, through music especially in the 1980’s and through the politics and sport and everything. A huge, huge figure on the world stage. I haven’t read Long Walk To Freedom but I think the time is right. It’s so good that he has enjoyed so many good years, and seen his country change so much and been in good health until recently.
Thanks Seana. If you you get a chance (not so easy these days) it really is such a great read!! xxx
I love that quote. I posted it on my FB page the other day.He is a true inspiration and his legacy will never be forgotten, I’m sure of it.
Beautiful, touching post. Thanks for sharing your precious memories.
Thanks Grace. I has some trouble trying to choose the best quotes – there are so many great ones, I could have written a blog post just on them xx
Wow you have such a great memory, and some stories to tell I’m sure. Isn’t it so true though? That we learn to hate? He is such an amazing man. I hope when he passes, it’s peaceful and on his terms xx
Me too!! How amazing is it to be so forgiving too. Makes you think doesn’t it xxxx
What an interesting article and such amazing events you’ve lived through! Very inspiring.
I think he is an incredibly inspiring man. Thanks so much for reading xx
What an inspiring read, thank you 🙂
Thank you so much for reading xx
His quotes always give me goosebumps…thanks for sharing such a beautiful post.
What a great read for today (while Invictus is on in the background) and what amazing man. Our world had been blessed!
What a lovely tribute to an absolutely incredible man. May he rest easy now his journey here is done.
What a fitting tribute lovely. I’ve been hooked watching docos on ABC over the past few days. I wrote a history assignment about Nelson Mandela, he was one of the most amazing people in the world. He changed the way it looks for so many. A very special man x